Robot Epidemic, The Pushed Generation

Written By: Addie Zhang

The Robot Epidemic, a generation of children pushed to excel in academics and learning, yet failing to develop intrinsic motivation and personal identity. In an era of increasing pressure in preparing for college admissions, children at an early age are told to set aside their own hopes and opinions for a “greater good” that they themselves cannot recognize. Now, this mentality has raised young adults who struggle to find empathy and autonomy, losing passion when their self becomes irrelevant. An era of mental illness and burnout has led to a depressed and anxious generation, with children “failing to launch” even when all the cards seem to be aligned. 

The Question of Why?

At the youngest of ages, the easiest way to achieve “success” as a parent is simply to tell your child what to do, programming them to act however you wish them to. Explaining the why, building passion, and the full learning process becomes irrelevant when the system stresses quick results and competition even before Middle School. Crucial learning steps disappear, and children become motivated by stress rather than any sense of enjoyment or individuality. Especially for subjects in fields based on quick logic and following patterns, ideas are drilled into children like numbers being punched into a robot. Kids do not have a choice in the matter, but continue working either out of fear of punishment or simple routine. Curriculum is taught at lightning speeds, and a sense of impending pressure leaves no room for wonder or true creativity.

American Psychologist and Stanford Professor Albert Bandura created a theory of social learning, arguing that four main stages are necessary for true growth to be achieved. 

1. Attention, noticing and paying attention to behaviors around you.

2. Retention, remembering what you saw and committing it to memory.

3. Reproduction, applying what you learned and copying the behavior. 

4. Motivation, a reason to do the behavior, a reward for yourself.

In today’s society, the final step has been lost and disregarded, treated as unnecessary and inherent rather than a true step to learning. While some children do genuinely enjoy what they do, the focus on reproduction and results dampens the focus on what children need the most. Kids are naturally built to absorb information in their early years, but struggle most with wanting to learn and being pushed to work at such a young age. Without identifying a reward for children, their success is limited to short-term achievement, as without motivation, a behavior cannot be fully applied.

Chapter 2: Fear-Based Motivation

In place of self-motivation, children become compelled by extrinsic motivation. Unlike intrinsic motivation, where kids feel joy or satisfaction from an activity, extrinsic motivation is completely separate from the behavior itself, never becoming a true solution. Children want a reward, or more commonly, fear punishment from parents or teachers. Instead of wanting to do things for themselves, their motivation becomes separate from the behavior and connected to negative stimuli. For those with no intrinsic motivation for learning, simply programming behaviors can push them to work, but also create a fragile balance where children are going along with the plans of others rather than their own. Results mount, but over time, your child grows reliant on punishment or reward, often requiring bigger pushes as they grow accustomed to motivation that doesn’t feel connected to them at all.

Professor Pablo Usán published an NIH study finding amotivation to be positively correlated with extrinsic motivations, along with fatigue and cynicism. While intrinsic motivation reduced states of burnout, extrinsic motivation correlated with exhaustion. The data shows a correlation, providing evidence that while extrinsic motivation still produces high results, it may drain the mental energy of children. In fact, while higher extrinsic motivation caused better academic performance, in the long term, it created mental pitfalls that we cannot ignore.

This mentality creates the Overjustification Effect, a phenomenon where external reinforcement is pushed onto children who already hold intrinsic motivation. When kids are young, they are filled with wonder, often finding their spark in activities and friendships. I was one of those children, falling headfirst for debate, then working hard out of fear to the point where I burnt out. When parental anxiety comes before preserving a child’s joy, extrinsic motivation begins to outweigh the intrinsic love for an activity. When punishment is placed as pressure, work begins feeling like an obligation rather than a passion project. The fear of punishment and disappointment from parents ties success to love and failure to self-value. Instead of loving what they do, children fear that they won’t be worthy unless they work harder for it. In an article released by The Harvard Gazette, author Jennifer Breheny Wallace explains how the fear of failure is entangled with achievement. 

“Where achievement becomes toxic is when we tangle up our entire sense of self and value with our achievements. When you have to achieve in order to matter.”

Motivation dies out, not because kids are lazy, but because work becomes toxic. Children lose themselves in the pursuit of perfection because pressure turns into fear, and fear is the enemy of passion. 

Failure In the Pursuit of Success

The brighter a star shines, the sooner it may burn. In fearing for their children’s success, parents bring the one thing they feared the most, failure in the pursuit of success. 

A child’s burnout doesn’t mean they stop working; it means they stop growing into strong and curious individuals. Exhausted and unheard, shutting down emotions becomes the only option, leaving a generation that feels robotic despite being human. A study conducted by Professor Alessandro Geraci from the University of Palermo found that burnout is also negatively correlated with emotional intelligence. Stronger self-awareness and understanding your own desires and emotions become a buffer to burnout, allowing you to find work that is genuinely fulfilling rather than a means to an end. 

Ultimately, we lose what makes us truly human, empathy and compassion for others. Studies now observe that while kids can still understand what empathy means, they struggle to apply it and understand other people's emotions and social cues. A Frontiers In Psychiatry study in 2020 reveals that positive relationships associated with work and school are what mediate the relationship between empathy and burnout. Having influences other than fear and forced direction brings back control, a factor we lack today.

The Path Forward

Taking the reins and forcing academics into high-achieving youth has given rise to a bigger problem than a bad grade, a loss of soul, and emotional understanding. When reward, gratitude, and motivation are warped, children learn to set aside their true feelings and suppress what makes them who they are. 

Steps need to be taken, but that takes time and collective action. Empathy needs to grow, not be suppressed in an era of life where children should be happiest. The “why?” we hear is curiosity, a way to guide but not force our children to succeed. Children deserve to thrive and grow, and that starts with giving them the empathy we wish for them to have. 

The result we find over time is that learning cannot be forced or rushed. Success, whether academic or emotional, is a journey that starts with self-discovery. We need to take a few steps back, and bring back the wonder and curiosity that brought us to learning. A foundation has to be built if the success is meant to last.

Sources

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[5] Usán, Pablo, et al. “Behaviour Patterns between Academic Motivation, Burnout and Academic Performance in Primary School Students.” International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, vol. 19, no. 19, 3 Oct. 2022, p. 12663, https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph191912663.